7 Ways Gratitude Enhances our Well-Being

As I was reflecting on the past three months of providing Reiki, I had an overwhelming feeling of gratitude.  I was grateful that people would take time out of their busy schedules to spend time with me.  I was grateful they came with an open mind, as many were not familiar with Reiki.  I was grateful for their incredible feedback on the sessions.  I was grateful that they felt relaxed and their mind was rested.  And I was especially grateful that they walked out with an experience that had lasting effects on their mind, body and spirit.  To all those people I say thank you from the bottom of my heart!

I have a daily gratitude practice.  Every night as I am ready to fall asleep I give thanks for a certain list of things, and I usually will throw in a couple timely items I am grateful for as well.  Do you have a daily gratitude practice?  Do the people you are grateful for KNOW how much they mean to you?

Giving gratitude has a multitude of positive effects on our overall wellness.  Check out the list below–I am guessing one or two will resonate with you and you will decide to be more grateful.  It can be as easy as starting a gratitude journal and writing 3 things you are grateful for each day, or start a “gratitude jar” and write things down, drop them in, and read them on a holiday or your birthday.  Find what works for you and bask in the glow of gratitude.

1. Gratitude opens the door to more relationships. Not only does saying “thank you” constitute good manners, but showing appreciation can help you win new friends, according to a 2104 study published in Emotion. The study found that thanking a new acquaintance makes them more likely to seek an ongoing relationship. So whether you thank a stranger for holding the door or you send a quick thank-you note to that co-worker who helped you with a project, acknowledging other people’s contributions can lead to new opportunities.

2. Gratitude improves physical health. Grateful people experience fewer aches and pains and they report feeling healthier than other people, according to a 2012 study published in Personality and Individual Differences. Not surprisingly, grateful people are also more likely to take care of their health.  They exercise more often and are more likely to attend regular check-ups with their doctors, which is likely to contribute to further longevity.

3. Gratitude improves psychological health. Gratitude reduces a multitude of toxic emotions, ranging from envy and resentment to frustration and regret. Robert A. Emmons, Ph.D., a leading gratitude researcher, has conducted multiple studies on the link between gratitude and well-being. His research confirms that gratitude effectively increases happiness and reduces depression. 

4. Gratitude enhances empathy and reduces aggression. Grateful people are more likely to behave in a prosocial manner, even when others behave less kind, according to a 2012 study by the University of Kentucky. Study participants who ranked higher on gratitude scales were less likely to retaliate against others, even when given negative feedback. They experienced more sensitivity and empathy toward other people and a decreased desire to seek revenge.

5. Grateful people sleep better. Writing in a gratitude journal improves sleep, according to a 2011 study published in Applied Psychology: Health and Well-Being. Spend just 15 minutes jotting down a few grateful sentiments before bed, and you may sleep better and longer.

6. Gratitude improves self-esteem. A 2014 study published in the Journal of Applied Sport Psychology found that gratitude increased athlete’s self-esteem, which is an essential component to optimal performance. Other studies have shown that gratitude reduces social comparisons. Rather than becoming resentful toward people who have more money or better jobs – which is a major factor in reduced self-esteem- grateful people are able to appreciate other people’s accomplishments.

7. Gratitude increases mental strength. For years, research has shown gratitude not only reduces stress, but it may also play a major role in overcoming trauma.  A 2006 study published in Behavior Research and Therapy found that Vietnam War Veterans with higher levels of gratitude experienced lower rates of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder.  A 2003 study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that gratitude was a major contributor to resilience following the terrorist attacks on September 11.  Recognizing all you have to be thankful for – even during the worst times of your life – fosters resilience.

Source:   https://www.forbes.com/sites/amymorin/2014/11/23/7-scientifically-proven-benefits-of-gratitude-that-will-motivate-you-to-give-thanks-year-round/#6263db0a183c

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